Need help coming up with a strategy on how to talk to women? Here is a short tutorial on the most basic method for cranking up sexual arousal and attraction during a conversation with a girl.

Sex talk is one of the most important aspects that a guy has to master. It could spell the difference between being a great lay and a so-so lay. But you don't just need sex talk skills when you're actually doing it. You can use sex talk in any conversation with a girl you want to bring home at the end of the night.

How To Improve Your Sex Talk - 3 Tips For Training

State Your Intention

If you tell her what you want to do to her, she will start thinking about the act even before it happens. This is really important for escalating things, and making her wish you'd hurry up and take her home. Dirty talk involves saying sexual statements such as "I want to be on top of you right now". Take note that you should start with what you want to do to her, and not what you want done on you. Unless she explicitly says that she likes 'giving' more than 'receiving', you're better off starting your sex talk by describing the things you want to do to her.

Be Imaginative

You have to come up with your own material when it comes to ideas you can use for your sex talk. One thing you can do is to relate romantic scenarios with love making. Think of it as creating a romantic story with sex involved, but talk about the sex more than the scenery. One example is sex on the beach, which is rather uncomfortable in reality, but makes for a great sexual fantasy you can use in your sex talk.

Whatever you do, don't use material or scenarios that you don't feel comfortable with. If you've never tried something, you can use your inexperience to create a sexual fantasy like the girl teaching you the ropes or something like that. If you force yourself to talk about a topic that you're not comfortable with, it will show in your voice.

Practice Your Sexy Voice

Controlling the way you talk when your topic is sex can contribute to her arousal. If you are not used to talking dirty, here are a few things to make your voice sound sexier. First, you can try talking slowly, especially when describing delicate body parts. If you're uncomfortable using explicit terms, you can use the romantic counterparts, such as "caress", "make love" and "thrust".

You may feel that you sound weird or silly when you're practicing how to talk to women about sex, but remember that all your hard work will pay off if you get it right and get her raring to go out with you after you've talked dirty to her.