He first few times engaging in sex can be a clumsy, awkward experience. For some it takes several sexual experiences to finally get the hang of it. We want to eliminate this by showing you how to have better sex for beginners.

First of all, let's break down sexual intimacy into some basic stages. Transitioning smoothly into sex is really what separates one from a beginner and a vet. These are basic steps that can avoid all of the common stumbling that occurs.

Kissing. This is usually what starts it all. Just standard kissing, without any tongue action.

French Kissing (enter the tongue). This is kissing that brings the tongue into play. Tongue to tongue kissing. This stage turns up the heat significantly.

Touching. This is where you feel and enjoy your partners body. Touching can start off with the clothes on and then go into bare skin touching.

SEX! When bare skin touching has been established, and it is mutually agreed to go further then actual sex can take place. Clothes are removed and insertion is made slowly and thoughtfully.

Going through the simple steps above establishes a smooth transition into the actual act itself. Now some important tips for having enjoyable sex:

LISTEN To One Another. Enjoyable sex is based on whether each partner is experiencing pleasure. You have to listen to one another to make sure you are pleasing one another. This will usually be most important during the first moment or so of actual sex. If one position is to awkward or uncomfortable, switch to another position.

Start SLOW. A big beginner mistake is trying to have sex fast. Going at it in a fast paced manner. This is a rookie move to be avoided. Go slow so you can develop a rhythm. Once you establish a pleasurable position and good rhythm then you can proceed to pick up the pace.

Lasting LONG. This is mainly for the guys. A huge beginner mistake is ejaculating way too quickly. This is actually very common and you really need to train your body beforehand so that you will be sure to last long enough. There are simple exercises you can do and you can even practice lasting long through masturbation.

ENJOY Yourselves. Above all you want to remember the enjoyment aspect of sex. Beginners can get so wound up, nervous and agitated about sex that it will eliminate the actual enjoyment aspect. You need to focus on enjoyment in order to have the best experience possible.